June 24, 2011

Doorposts: Parenting and Homeschooling Biblical Guidebook

Starbucks LogoIf you are one of the many homeschoolers out there who have chosen to homeschool because you felt that public school was lacking in moral instruction for your kids, this review is for you. Doorposts is a Christian company that provides Bible and Character-based materials for students, parents, and homeschoolers, so it is assumed that anyone looking in to purchasing something from them already has a Christian faith. With that being said, I wanted to share a little about their spiral bound book called "For Instructions in Righteousness". This review was for the newly released (May 2011) version ..."Third Edition of For Instruction in Righteousness" which was originally put out in 1993 and revised in 1995. It now has over 60,000 copies sold.

I don't know about you, but I am always on the look out for good devotionals to do with my kids. We read through our Bible a few chapters every day for school, but I like to add a devotional reading as well. Over the years we have read some great books during this time - and I have listed many of them in my Homeschool Series Curriculum pages. A while back we added "For Instructions in Righteousness" to our devo book list.

I was blown away by the amount of information in this book... which is a "Topical Reference Guide for Biblical Child-Training". It's like a Character Bible -- using the Bible's verses to cover each area of 'sin' or discipline need in a child's life. When I began browsing through it at first use, I started to feel really depressed -- that I didn't have this book when my children were TINY. Junior High is really too late to start being THIS consistent with child training. I'm so glad I have "For Instructions of Righteousness" for my younger set - the 2 year old and 4 month old... and hope that by working hard to undo some lazy parenting habits, I can still get in a lot of good mileage with the big kids before they are gone.

Here are the topics that are covered in this guide:

Sins of a Proud Heart (pride, self-righteousness, hypocrisy, stubbornness, disobedience, defiance, scoffer/scorner, arguing/contention, brawling, vanity/over-concern for beauty, judging others, confidence in riches)

Sins of Discontent (complaining/ingratitude, selfishness/greed, envy/jealousy, covetousness, rules for borrowers, theft)

Sins of Unbelief (easily swayed/double-minded, backsliding, discouragement/giving up, depression, fear, worry/anxiety)

Sins of an Undisciplined Life (laziness, unfaithful employee, haste, impatience/irritability, anger, gluttony/pleasure-seeking, drunkenness/drug-abuse, immorality/sexual sin, sinful thought life, immodesty, wastefulness/extravagance/carelessness)

Sins of the Tongue (lying/deceit/dishonesty, shifting blame/making excuses, false witness, gossip/slander/tattletale, meddling/busybody, foolish/unclean speech, flattery)

Sins of an Unloving Heart (hatred, bitterness, hitting/biting/kicking/harming others, revenge, bullying/cruelty, unkind/unwise speech, insensitivity/lack of compassion)

Sins in Relationships (bad friendships, poor manners, teasing/troublemaking)

Comparisons of the Obedient and the Disobedient (foolishness vs. wisdom, wickedness vs. righteousness, comparison worksheet)

Each disciplinary area covers the following:

  • General information and commandments about the particular sin
  • What happens, or should happen, to the person that commits the sin according to scripture
  • What should the person do if they have a problem or infraction with the sin/behavior
  • What the sin is likened to in scripture
  • Stories that illustrate the consequences of the sin in scripture
  • The blessings of the opposite virtue
  • Stories that illustrate the blessings of the opposite virtue
  • Verses to memorize

AND -- under each verse in every section throughout the chapters, there is practical advice, object lesson ideas, book suggestions, and parenting tips on how to go about training your child. [This book is a GOLDMINE of Biblical parenting tips - one I wish I had about 14 years ago.]

The back of the book also has a few helpful appendixes:

Helping your child learn scripture
Using this book as a bible study (wow - that would take forever)
Thoughts on rewarding children
Thoughts on paying children for work
Helpful Resource list

My thoughts on using the book for homeschooling are as follows:

1. You could use it for a devotional (which is what we've been doing)
2. You could use it when your child needs correction as a reference (a lot of people do, I am told)
3. You could use it for a bible study (as the back of the book/Appendix B suggests)
4. You could use it for a topical study to go with character-based unit studies (KONOS, anyone?)
5. You could use it for a list of bible memory verses that pertain to your child's area of weakness (or as an assignment to accompany discipline - writing verses)
6. You could use it for a parenting class/to brush up on your own skills (read it for yourself!)
7. You could use it as a GIFT (for another Bible-based homeschool friend/new parent)
8. You could use it for copywork material to practice handwriting or cursive (great material!)
9. You could use it as a family Bible study - to enrich everyone in your family and grow together in God.

What NOT to do with this book:

Let it collect dust!

Don't be like me and flip through the Doorposts materials and put them back down on the conference table, thinking - "Oh, that's nice. I'll have to add that to my list." Nine years later, with children on the razor edge between junior high and high school, you'll be kicking yourself (I know this from experience). I'm so blessed that I have another set of little ones to use this material on - and thankful for the reminder in this moment that parenting may not be easy, but it should always be consistent and Godly.

What a great refresher course for an old homeschool mule like me - one that has noticed a bit of laziness lately - due to the tired season I'm in and all the lack of sleep we've been experiencing. Time to get back to the standards of the Word and start building on the Rock that I planned this homeschool to be built on.

Here's how to find out more about Doorposts and "For Instructions in Righteousness": Check out your own copy of this book in person at the homeschool convention in Austin this weekend -- I didn't make it over there today, but plan to be there tomorrow. Or check the Doorposts website to see what conference they will be at near you. Sign up for their user group where you can email with other people who use their products to glean from other homeschoolers and parents with a like purpose. Check out their site and order a free catalog. Find out about the people who publish and sell Doorposts' materials: the Forster Family.

Want to see a sample chapter on arguing and complaining? Click the link and go read for yourself!

Disclosure: Doorposts provided "For Instructions in Righteousness" for this review free of charge, but the opinion expressed here is my own and in no way compensated for.

NOTE: Leave a comment on each of my review posts this week and I'll be picking some winners to any and all of the products that some of these great vendors are offering. One entry per post, per person - enter by Saturday - random winner announced next Sunday the 26th!

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Sierra Mama said...

Thank you so much for this review and the link to a chapter! I have has this on my personal homeschool wishlist for a while. Winning one would be a blessing!

Becky said...

I found you when I was searching for info on Konos and I am happy I did. I plan on using konos in the fall with my daughters. I would love to win this. I have Polished Cornerstones from Doorposts and would love to use more of their products! Thanks for the oppurtunity. I am really enjoying your blog!

Kathy Balman said...

Great post!!!! kbalman@gmail.com

Jeniffer said...

I will have to look into getting this (sooner rather than later!) So glad I stumbled upon these reviews! It's like boot camp for aspiring homeschool moms. :D

Annie said...

Thanks for the review...sounds like something I need to read!

Jamie said...

Wow, that seems fabulous! Would love to use that with my kiddos. I'm similar to you in that I have an 11 year old and an 8 year old and then I have a 21 month old and one on the way! This would be great to use with all 4! Thanks!

char said...

I was given a doorpost poster that has hung in our school room from the beginning but I never have gotten a book. This year was the first time i spent some time at their booth at our convention and really wish I could have bought up the whole table. Since funds for the upcoming school year do not seem to be materializing like I had planned I am hoping to win ALL your give aways this week! ☺ Is that possible?!?

amber @ classichousewife said...

This is on my list of things to get for the new school year!

I saw it once several years ago, in person, and immediately liked it but promptly forgot about it and never got it. But I'm getting it this year!

Christin said...

Would love a shot!! I love Doorposts and have a couple of their resources!
Email: christin@joyfulmothering.net

Shannon Wallace said...

Doorposts is such a wonderful family that loves the Lord! I have a few of their items, and I truly am blessed by everything I have bought from them!

marissa said...

Thank you always looking for unique things. I think we will use this for our bible study this school year.

Sprittibee said...

Annie - are you out there? You didn't leave any contact info...

Sade Tagbo said...

I got this book from a friend and I love the depth of it. The kiddoes and I were amazed at the number of scriptures that dealt with each of the topics. Even when we were only able to spend a little time on our devotions, we came away feeling like we'd been studying for hours. The only drawback with this book is the focus on sins without a balance of the virtues to pursue: patience, love etc.

Stephen Beck said...

First homeschool book I bought at my first homeschool conference. Used for many years. Love this resource!



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